Why so many girls fall in love with anal sex?

I think if we talk sex, this must be one of the most opinionated topics. Some hate it. Some find it disgusting. Some are afraid to talk about. Some are secretly curious. Some love it.

I never thought I’d ever be writing about this. Well, I never thought I’d be where I am today either, haha. In my early journey I had met a girl was, how could I put it nicely, a total anal monster. This girl, as I had found out, was not only passionate about it but she had also gifted butt plugs to her girlfriends.

As a curious person I am, I had said yes. One thing is to try something new for the sake of reference experience, another is - when you try and discover how much love and impact it can have on one. I was meaning to write and share about this, often unfairly feared, topic for a while now. It’s time.

I think there are two great reasons for this. I will start from a lesser one that a kind hearted lady had shared with me.

(Sense of) being dominated & Hot Scene

As I’ve already extensively written about being the man in the bedroom, being dominant comes in many flavors. One of them is actually letting the submissive do things that make her feel dominated. And as easy as that sounds, for some girls , the pleasure comes from the mental play alone. Isn’t that wonderful?

I’ve actually heard quite a lot how many girls desire to sexually submit but they cannot find the partner that could give them that experience. It’s not just about being dominant, it’s about knowing what you do and being a proper gentleman.

Different sensations

This is one of the most fascinating parts to me. The most exciting thing that I had learned about woman’s biology - however - not from a biology class.

The way woman’s genitals are created is very interesting actually. Focusing on the two entrances, they’re back to back each other and share the same wall.

While entire vagina, or - in basic terms - the inside of the pussy, is sensitive to pleasure, the deeper you go the more sensitive it gets. The deep spot - not to be confused with the cervix, which can be painful or discomfort to some girls - is the best place for an orgasm. However not always it is easy to stimulate it properly with penis or with the fingers. This is where the approach from behind comes in. There really is no big magic.

A chance to try something new

Now that we've covered the basics, the big trick comes that many girls have desire to try multiple guys at once, aka the devil’s threesome. However not many are going to try that due various reasons. During anal sex, this opens opportunity to exploring the double penetration in terms of including toys. For example, combining a dildo, an egg vibrator or a plain fingers - although that would require some extraordinary acrobatics.

From my own experience, I’ve seen girls absolutely go crazy for this. Sometimes this can be a huge mix of physical stimulation yielding enormous pleasure and mental stimulation matching with her desires. It often may not take more than a few minutes until she’s quivering, moaning and having one of the most amazing orgasms in her life. If she wanted to be chocked or suck on your finger at the same time, don’t be surprised and give that to her. It might be the tipping point to being the perfect match to her.

Very important preface

I wrote this sort of upside down. While the order is not a rule in law and I think the stuff above is more exciting to read at first, now that I have your attention, please read this short section.

Never ever judge her for being self-conscious, for perhaps making your condom or penis brown, or in extremely rare cases shitting herself (I have never had that happen although a bit may come out when she orgasms strong and then releases muscles and if you come out right after). If you feel that this is disgusting for you, then don’t even do it. Seriously, the more intimate things get the more support, pre- and after-care it requires. While we guys often don’t feel on ourselves, it can have profound effect on her being in the bed if you don’t treat her with respect.

Always warm up. Unless she tells you differently, butt-plug and lube is a must. Depending on your size in width not length, you need to use a bigger (increasing in size) butt plug and lots of lube. Silicone lube, specialized, is the best. Personally I use water-based just to avoid unpleasant discoveries with her being allergic or smth. Most important to be generous with it. As while, she’d be able to enjoy so much pleasure, she has no natural lubrication there.

Skipping warm up could cause enormous amount of pain, even small tearing in the skin, and bleeding. From good this can quickly turn into very horrible experience. So don’t do that. Just a few minutes with a butt-plug goes a long way. It varies, of course, as to how much she is naturally relaxed.

That’s it. As with everything else, if you decide to try, talk with her, do it slow, be supportive, and enjoy exploring!